Fr. Kevin Dooley: St. Paul's Church: The Religion of Fear vs. the Religion of Love; Why the message of threats might work, but is not what God calls us to.
Friday, December 14, 2012
Monday, December 3, 2012
Saturday, November 10, 2012
Nostalgia:2007: Welcome Failure: Failure is the Breakfast of Champions
THURSDAY, JUNE 21, 2007
Chinese Fortune Cookie Corner: "Welcome Failure: Failure is the Breakfast of Champions"---a true story
Yesterday I had to take my youngest to Janesville for a driver education road lesson. Before the lesson, we had a little time together for her to shop and then to share a bit of Chinese at the Food Court.
I have a habit of opening the fortune cookie first--- before the meal. The Fortune Cookie read: " Welcome Failure: Failure is the Breakfast of Champions."
I have mentioned in an earlier post, that over thirty years ago, right after a fortune cookie that read, "Not Now, but Soon," I had received a layoff from an employer. Ever since, I have paid strict attention to those fortune cookies. That being said, I wish they were more precise. The vagueness in unnerving.
Relax. The driving lesson went fine.
I think the Chinese were directing the fortune cookie towards those who did not know that the world of school and life are different. Nobody gets 99.992% success all the time and still ranks at the median of the class.
Most folks are blessed with enough failures so they have a balanced view of their strengths and weaknesses. Or at least the whims of the world.
After reflection, I feel pretty confident that I have had enough failures thank you. I do not need any more.
Then again, maybe the Chinese fortune cookie WAS talking about that planning commission meeting last week---what a devastating failure in the unanimous defeat of the efforts of the community of the 4th Ward to prevent the bar on Exchange Street. Was that what the cookie was talking about? We will never know for sure.
The Observer still recommends that this specific fortune cookie be eliminated from the mix till it can be more specific. I hope the Chinese Observer is taking notes.
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Wednesday, October 24, 2012
Saturday, October 6, 2012
Memories of Don Sheehan and "Value Investing"
Don Sheehan, a superstar salesman who used to do Dale Carnegie seminars nationwide, used to spend quite a bit of time on teaching sales pros what to concentrate on and what to ignore.
To make a point, I remember him whipping off his belt---quite startling in a room packed with people---and then asking everyone to guess what they thought his belt was worth.
He then reminded them that he was well travelled---- France, Germany, New York, and San Francisco, and that to remember that this belt was genuine cowhide with a premium belt buckle.
He went around the room and asked each person what the belt was worth. The price variation was pretty wide. From $3.99 to $25.
"Well," he said, "I bought it at K-Mart just down the street in Richfield. It cost $4.99."
We were really shocked.
"People are always guessing what you paid for things. It is really none of their business. Let em guess. There is a difference between what you pay for things, and what they are worth. Never forget it."
I never have. Thanks Don.
Tuesday, September 25, 2012
Nostalgia: Audio: Fr. Kevin Dooley: July 19, 2009
Audio; Sermon of the Week: Fr. Kevin Dooley, St. Paul's Church: July 19, 2009----"What is "Want"?
Back to the 50's: Waiting for President Kennedy
Remember 1950? I have been trying to refresh my memories lately and have been listening to all the old Buddy Holly songs, Elvis, Ricky Nelson etc. But that was after the conversation of 1950 when the troops were coming home from the Korean War---folks were frustrated a little at the slow transition to peacetime employment. I remember the call, and the tears of joy when my dad was coming back from Korea. He was born in 1912, one of many older troops, who at 40 were beginning their peace lives. As a young boy just listening in, I remember the election where Jack Kennedy said he could "get this country moving again". What did that mean? In a nutshell, it had been ten years of adjustment from war to peace. And it would be five years till the 1965 Ford Mustang. So what? Pencil in 10 to 15 years from the time the boys come home from Afganistan as the time when we will adjust to a peace economy. Start when the troops are all home. Adjusting to peace is painful. Are YOU tough enough?
Saturday, September 22, 2012
Sermon of the Week: Fr. Kevin Dooley: Sept 14, 2008
Fr. Kevin Dooley: St. Paul's Church: The Religion of Fear vs. the Religion of Love; Why the message of threats might work, but is not what God calls us to.
Monday, May 7, 2012
A Little note about Flogging; Tales From Normal, Mn.: FICTION
Visiting Bearded Monk says flogging is essential to becoming one with the divine: Tales From Normal, Mn.; FICTION
Well it has been pretty shocking....today in Normal, Mn. at the Church of the Perpetual Fishermen, a traveling missionary, and some have speculated frustrated by the small collection gathered to support his intense mission, said as he left the small church in this small fishing community, that some of the wayward really did need a flogging every so often just to really experience the full bliss of the Lord....and yes the little old ladies just smiled quietly as they left from Church....it seemed to have brought back memories of their youth when they had learned of such talk as being typical of the "Spanish Inquisition" monks and such....Anyway, they just smiled and moved away from Church, and determined not to enter again and pledge their donations till that missionary had left the state.
Wednesday, May 2, 2012
Friday, April 20, 2012
"All the Clergy are Married in Normal, Mn.: FICTION
All the Clergy are Married in Normal, Mn.: FICTION
Well it's spring, and now that the frozen tundra has warmed up, it is time for me to get back up to the cabin in Normal, Mn., the small fishing village near Garrison where I get away from the wild and crazy politics in Wisconsin, and settle in to some peaceful walleye fishing and such, and start each day off at Betty Lou's Cafe, where all the coffee is double strong black, and in a tall blue Minnesota Vikings mug, which are in short supply because Betty Lou is unsure whether the Vikings are going to stay in Minnesota, so the mugs are available for sale, but for $19.95 as a tourist item.....but I digress. I stopped in last Sunday at the Church of the Perpetual Fisherman, and chatted with the resident pastor, who travels between three parishes in Northern Minnesota, but makes his home in Normal, MN with his wife and 3 children...yes he is married, and in fact, he is my hero, along with all of Christ's apostles who were ALL married. Ah if only we could purify the Church and take it back to the days when the focus was on reaching out to spread the WORD rather than whether the proper response is "With your Spirit" or the more correct Hebrew version....." But I digress....and ALL the nuns in Normal, Mn. are Married too....that's the way it always has been in Normal, Mn...Where the nuns have been involved in teaching and such....
Friday, April 13, 2012
2010: Audio; Easter Sunday; Fr. Kevin Dooley; St. Paul's
2010: Audio; Sermon of the Week; Easter Sunday; St. Paul's Church; Evansville, Wi: Fr. Kevin Dooley.
Wednesday, April 11, 2012
Tuesday, April 3, 2012
Spread the Light: Tales from Normal, Mn.; FICTION
Spread the Light Liturgy Still will be held in Normal, Mn.: FICTION
Recently in the frozen tundra, some sensitive congregations of the faithful have been concerned about the Holy Saturday liturgy in that while all those members of the Congregation of the Faithful are spreading the light in the pews, there is..well...some...smoke that is being inhaled...and it might be bad for ones health.... I just got the text from Normal, Mn. Church of the Holy Faithful, that the traditional service of the "Lights" will be held on Saturday night this week, and not withstanding the squimishness of certain Christian sects that are worried about a little smoke, the Light of Christ well be spread as in the traditional liturgy, before the environmental progressives got involved in liturgical development. There is limited seating so arrive early. Lumen Christi
Monday, March 19, 2012
Saturday, March 17, 2012
Friday, February 17, 2012
Signs for the Ages: "Soglin for Mayor; Nixon's a Crook":
If you walked down State Street in Madison in 1970..and gazed to the right, you would have seen two large signs on the buildings....one proclaimed "Soglin for Mayor" and the second sign on a different building...."Nixon's A Crook".
This week without fanfare, Paul Soglin had hip surgery...and someone replaced him at the helm. Paul became mayor again recently and addressed the Edgewater...the Library...the Overture..and the budget for the city of Madison....and he did again what the citizens of Madison have COUNTED on him to do....come thru for them....
Best wishes on a speedy recovery, Paul Soglin. After all these years....we are still counting on you...
Tuesday, February 14, 2012
You're not chunky because you had too many "Olives"
In one presentation on dieting, our instructor went on about the calories in alcohol.
Wondering, I raised my hand and asked; " How many olives are there in a serving?"
She responded; " Richard, You're not chunky because you have had too many olives. You can have as many as you want.
Thus whenever I order a gin martini, shaken not stirred, straight up, I always order "double olives."
Then she went on: "When you review liquor, and the calories...what happens when you drink?
That's right...you tend to eat MORE. After a drink you might relax and have a second, third or fourth piece of pizza.
How true it is.
And another thing, when in the drinking scene, pretty soon it gets to the lowest denominator.....Why not light the dinner candles, make the martini with double olives, and then sip it slowly like a special dinner in a castle.....Savor it. And the double olives....
SSS---
Over the past three months, I have plotted what things have contributed to my diet slips......And I have concluded that the term SSS covers it.
S is for Stress. Being mild mannered, I have had the tendency to just eat a cheeseberger when faced with challenges I could not solve quickly. I found that holiday stress and kids stress max this out. The second element of stress is work stress...and if one is confined or maybe "caged" is a better term, in a work cubicle, and then stressed with uncontrolled volume of interaction with customers...who might be occasionally unhappy...the result on diet is bad...I am going to change that.....
For the second S I have concluded that "Social" or peer presure or whatever one would call it, the types of friends and their attitude toward healthy eating have a profound effect on diet...During football season I need something else but eating, drinking and watching football to do. And it helps to have friends with interests beyond this.
And finally, a S can be for structure...On having projects and activities designated so that eating is not my primary hobby. .
Sunday, February 12, 2012
The Rise of "Gangsta" Government: Oh the Glories of Little Bohemia
Recently I took a winter pilgrimage of sorts up to Manitowish Waters in Northern Wisconsin to spend a weekend near "Little Bohemia"---the resort where the FBI had that famous gun battle with John Dillinger as depicted in the recent movie. As I approached the lodge in the erie darkness, I was stunned that the very dark display of the film was in fact how it was in real life....we had a wonderful time at dinner there where there are momentos of the Dillenger event and I do recommend everyone to take a trip to see for yourself...but I digress...
Those were the days when bold robbers met their fate at the hands of skillfull lawmen of the young FBI....what has happened to those days when bribery and extortion were met with the righteous wrath of the courageous FBI?
Take for example the recent event in Madison, Wisconsin where a noted corporation, posing through a middleman, threatened the State of Wisconsin that they would leave for the warm weather of Florida unless they were paid several million dollars to relocate to the nearby Middleton......
How is this different from the famous extortion cons of the wild 1930"s.
Very simple.
Now we call it Economic Development.
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